Posted by: Emrick | January 3, 2014

How to Attract Happiness and Success

Scientists found that happiness was the cause of success; not the other way around.

SUCCESS causes HAPPINESS?

Most of us have grown with pp telling us to work hard so we get to succeed and then “boom!” we become happy.

Well , if this was the case, there wouldn’t be so many cases of suicide within the “wealthy/successful” community.

There is something happening to many people who reach “success”; they become greedy, because all their beliefs is in papers.

Many forgot their mission. They become bored with their “toys”. They find themselves insulated and become obsessed with getting the last model.  

HAPPINESS causing SUCCESS?

Simple. Happiness comes from the inside. some people have virtually nothing, struggle everyday, but are truly happy.

They have a community of like minded people around them, help , share and care about their community.

There is no competition in their mind, but cooperation. Mother Teresa was one. Gandhi was another. It is of course one image of happiness.

There is another kind, the “west world” image of happiness, like the “enlightened millionaires who use their fortune to help people around.

One such  individual is Sir Richard Branson, who is seen helping people all around. understanding that helping , caring , sharing , and serving are the true source of happiness.

Tony Robbins started to help poor families, and always ready to help. And of course countless volunteers who understand that concept.
So how do we become happier?

* Appreciate everything in your life; a good fruit, a good laugh, a nice song, a bird singing, a nice smile, your car, your family, your home, etc.

* Be open to others. Do Not try to change them! Accept them for who they are!

* Help others when the occasion rises.

* Share a moment or a meal with someone.

* Care about others feelings, problems,and be supportive to them.

* Serve others. Do the best you can into providing something of value. A good advice, a referral, something to help a business.

But don’t take my word for it. Try it for yourself! Experiment!

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